zldane replied to your postNOT only was I engaged to Neil, not only did he…

ADGSSGHDTYH WHAT?????

it was the 90s, okay, everything was weird back then

BUT here’s the extra stupid details: Neil is my godmother’s son and he had a crush on me I guess so he asked me to marry him and I looked him dead in the eyes and said “where’s my ring”

and our parents thought the whole thing was so fucking funny they just went along with it and his mom helped him pick out a ring for me and everything

when he turned 18 I told him I was releasing him from our engagement as a joke

^ yeah I think it’s the whole “oh how tragic that they must put duty before love” type of thing. Our culture paints knights and princesses in such a romantic light that I guess it just sticks with us for a long time. Courtly romance was nothing like the kind of romance we paint with these fictional characters though because a lot of times nothing came of it (the rules of the game u mentioned). I’ll probably always be a sucker for the lord/vassal trope tho LOL I just find it romantic KAJSJDKFKKFK

comradewodka replied to your post: @comradewodka I apparently missed the second half…

   *pat* it’s ok! Different people like different tropes    

Probably but I think there’s a way to do that…better? Because in other medias I don’t mind as much, and actually my novel Dragon’s Daughter is also a knight/princess trope (twice over really, one relationship failed due to unequal footing and the second one succeeding because they do treat each other as equals).

I guess equality is something that’s important to me!

But yeah I think people don’t understand what Courtly Romance actually was and so it gets treated like this instead and it really just depends on the writer and how they treat it whether I think it’s acceptable or not ahahaha…

Anyway one of the reasons I love FE is that there’s something in it for everyone, though by that same reasoning every game also has things that people won’t like as well. It’s just the way it goes!

zldane replied to your post “if any of you love me I expect fanart of Arthur for my next birthday”

When’s ur bday

comradewodka replied to your post “if any of you love me I expect fanart of Arthur for my next birthday”

Remind me closer to it and I will

Wow I have such good friends!!! I was mostly being facetious but I also wouldn’t say no!

@zldane my bday is February 26th. If I’m still dying over Arthur at that point I’ll probably make another post ahaha